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Category Archive: CoDependency


Is He Trying To Control You?

"My husband is always telling me what to do. How can I keep living with a person who tries to control everyone?"  Gail was so frustrated she was almost in tears. How often do you fume about someone’s attempts to control you?  In some relationships it happens way too often for comfort—especially in “co-dependent relationships” …

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We nearly derailed ourselves

What happened next is one example of the law of unintended consequences. We kept being asked to teach what we were learning and we might have continued to have quiet psychotherapy and training business, but it would’ve stopped there: — if it had not been for accidentally getting entangled in a process where we both …

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We almost split up…

As I said in my last post our lives didn’t work out quite as we expected. I started out very much like most of the women I’ve worked with over the years —  possibly a lot like you did. I tried very hard to be a good wife and put aside everything about me that …

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